I don't think chasing Kevin around is going to advance the thread much HT. Best move on ay. At the end of the day, there are going to be situations where people will die. No one wants to say it, but there will be a point where you need to decide if it is you or them. Most of the time, that is going to be them, we just don't want to say that.
The exception being kids. I think a lot of parents would put themselves in extreme, basically fatal danger to try and save their kids.
Thinking about the rescues I've been involved in, on both sides of the ledger, they've all be rather un-dramati